How Do Narcissists Describe Their Exes?
The narcissist has many enemies…however…it is never their fault.
There are no exes who have remained friends…there is no running into someone you once dated and genuinely wanting to know how they were and what was new?
Each and every ex partner (girlfriend/boyfriend, spouse, lover…) was ‘crazy.’ ‘Unstable.’ Ridiculous.’ ‘Unreasonable.’ ‘Not fun.’ ‘Exhausting.’ ‘Mentality ill’ ‘Mentally Unwell…’
You will hear this from every pwNPD…I guarantee it.
If you really pay attention, and you want to know both sides of a story…you come to find that infact…he/she behaved with each and every person in a very sadistic, manipulative, cruel and calculated way…
And when the actual exes get together and compare notes…there is an uncanny amount of important (and disturbing) information they want to share with one another.
These former exes (who were told and expected to dispise every past person for ‘torturing’ the narcissist…) become friends. War buddies. At least that is what happened to me.
She actually helped execute my smear campaign…but it was not her fault. She was lied to. Like I was lied to. Like everyone was lied to…including his family who once thought I was crazy….they no longer feel this way…
No accountability. No apologies. No taking any responsibility whatsoever for the failure of the relationship. Every single person was ‘off their rocker!’ ‘A Chore of a person.’ How badly they suffered…..
At 40 years of age she is no longer with us. Ironically…she couldn't handle her smear campaign and left the country. By the end…I was the only one who wouldn't give up on her…
I wish I had done more. She deserves to tell her story…you can not imagine what these people are truly capable of and how they twist it to make everything seem like all is well…life goes on.
The first wife can not get out of bed…and the second wife is no longer here…all children involved are siding with the narcissist, yet they do not feel very well. They are not doing well in school. They seem very confused….I know I was… everyone was…
And all the while he was smiling. But karma is real…he isn’t smiling anymore.
