Thank you so much for what you said, and I completely agree. I don't think I've had any more trouble than most dealing with someone you love with an illness..perhaps I've felt that way only because I lost my Dad quite young, and my Mom and I were extremely close (I was very close with both of them) but it happened so fast. I felt like the wind had been knocked out of me, and I just consider myself extremely fortunate that I was able to get some help during a time I really couldn't have needed it more. Thank you so much for sharing your comments with me and I hope you'll stay in touch. Love, Ellen xo