What type of partner do people attract after healing from narcissistic abuse?

I always say…after you heal and you figure things out…you learn all sorts of stuff…some very important lessons.

Like boundaries.

You have a much clearer picture I think of what you want your life to look like and I truly believe you start to attract the people who are supposed to be in your life.

I say this because that is precisely what is happening to me.

I’m not saying that you will necessarily meet your ‘soulmate’ (if that is even such a thing) but you will be surprised at the people who aren’t exactly pleased with your newfound respect for yourself.

It is amazing how many people benefited from you being a pushover or simply not wanting to make waves.

Sometimes it is hard to have to say goodbye to certain people but for me they no longer fit my life and were not contributing to my well being. It was no longer working but now I look at it as simply making room for the right ones.