What is the Best Way to Respond to the Silent Treatment? Try and realize, while this experience is not pleasant, you are going to learn something invaluable and it's going to change everything…. I am not just speaking of ‘the silent treatment’ (ghosting) where a narcissist is concerned, I am speaking in general, because there are some very immature, uncaring people…

What are Some Behaviour Signs and Indications that a Person is Healing from Narcissistic Abuse? What are Some Behaviour Signs and Indications that Someone is Pretending to be Healing but is Still Longing for the Narcissist? I can only explain what I observed with myself when I started to heal. And honestly, at first I didn't even notice. I stopped sleeping as much as I once did. I think that was an escape for me. I started to wake up early in the morning and for…

What is the Brutal Truth About a Third Marriage? Well…I was only married once…for about a half a minute, so I can only tell you from the perspective of a few people I know who have been married three times. First, of course there is a stigma attached. I think that's wrong. Some people don't hit the jackpot the…

What is Your Favorite Story About Your Mom? I have to start by saying…I realize some of you may not find this funny…but if you truly knew my parents (and especially my Mother) you will be laughing by the end…I promise. My family was small but mighty. Everyone who saw us interact was usually hysterically laughing by the…

What Are The Ways Narcissistic People Deal With Partners? In the beginning, you are sheer perfection. Everything you like, they like. It’s uncanny. But if you are not a suspicious person and this has never happened to you before, instead of realizing that you are about to be taken on one big, scary ride, you actually believe you have…

How Does Jealousy Affect a Narcissist? It is the biggest oxymoron in the world! All of the things that they find appealing about you…all of the things they see in you…special things, these are the very things that start them on their quest to conquer and control you, because these are qualities they want for themselves…

What Are Your Unique Ways of Expressing Gratitude? When I started to heal after my marriage to a pwNPD, all sorts of strange things started happening. …

What is An Old Excuse You Gave Yourself That You No Longer Have? ‘But that’s not fair!’ If I recall, I once said this quite frequently….I no longer do. Life is not fair. That is not to say that life isn’t beautiful. We have bad moments, beautiful moments, and moments of clarity. …

Is it Possible to Take Anything Positive Away From Your Experience With a Narcissist? From time to time people will ask me if I can take anything positive away from my experience with my ex husband with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Other than the fact he made me a much stronger individual ( not that those were his intentions) I honestly couldn't think of one…